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- Acceptable: "I am not comfortable with the competence of their medical director."
- Not Acceptable: "Their medical director is incompetent."
- Acceptable: "I don't have confidence in . . ." "I would prefer to see . . ." "Program X was more appealing to me than program Y on that point."
- Not Acceptable: ". . . is abusing children." ". . . does not do it properly." "Program X does it right and program Y does it wrong."
- May be Acceptable: "I believe investigation might reveal that . . . "
- Allowable but discouraged: "Lu Vaughn is the best wilderness therapist in any program for adolescent boys."
- Strongly preferred: I have more confidence in Lu Vaughn than any other wilderness therapist for adolescent boys.
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Last updated January 6, 2014